A problem of we, you and I in a poem

Ah, Leanne, Anstey, how I love you both. (Obviously this is a broad generalisation and probably should be qualified to avoid legal action)

Steve, I would be interested in your comments once you have read the poems too. Not least because, as far as one can tell on the internet, you are male and Leanne is female.

There does seem to be evidence that men and women write very different poetry and I wonder suddenly if the particular issue of poems with one person both talking about themselves and addressing another person might be a very female form. Obvious to Leanne, me and other women but less obvious to male readership.

Or am I talking through my hat here?