Sometimes I hate this life.

Ditto what Rene said! Also when Jersey is discharged,  I work for the VA and I can try to help you navigate the system. Just be reassured the VA is now one of the best Healthcare providers in the United States! AND all OIF/OEF veterans get all sorts of healthcare services and there is also alot of online information too. Just let me know if I can help in anyway. And remember you worry about Jersey as much as you like!!